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Guidlines using Venus Vaginal Inserts
for the Management of Vaginismus.
Details
The woman puts aside ten
minutes twice daily to be private, preferably after 5 to 10 minutes with
a bath, shower, or music, etc. During the ten minutes, she experiences
introital touch initially and then begins insertion of the vaginal inserts.
Many women with repeated pain from attempted penetration recognize simple
introital touch or pressure as pain and, for them:
Stage 1
Simply be in control of
self-touch with a finger, or with the insert, touching at the introitus
confirming that, with herself in control, she can perceive simply touch
and not pain.
Stage 2
Pass the insert into and
through the introitus and leaving it in for 5 to 10 minutes, confident
the sensation experienced is not pain, just pressure and awareness that
there is something in the vagina and in the introitus.
Stage 3
On other successive days,
the woman gradually inserts more of the first insert and then moves through
the rest of the series of 5 to 7 inserts at her own pace, never allowing
pain, always withdrawing the insert slightly if true pain is perceived,such
that a narrower diameter is present in the in the introitus and pain is
absent. Sometimes it is necessary to go back to the previous size of insert
and then progress again more slowly.
Sexual Activity
As she progresses through
stages 1 to 3, if the patient has a partner, all non-penetrative sex is
encouraged. Finally free of the threaat of subsequent pain, many women
feel perhaps for the first time sexual enjoyment, arousal, and climax that
is without risk. Women who, as a consequence of the pain of vaginismus,
have secondarily lost desire need to begin with very low-key sexual activity
at their own pace, knowing nothing else is expected and that they are in
control of everything that happens. If there is a partner, seeing him (or
her) to explain the vaginismus and the concept of continuing with non-intercourse
sex, or re-introducing non-intercourse sex, is very necessary.
Stage 4
Once insert #5 or #6 is
reached, the phenomenon of vaginismus in the presence of inserts is clearly
over. So that vaginismus does not recur with penile penetration, it is
important to encourage the couple to allow some penile/vulval contact without
penetration and then, later, penile insertion only without thrusting.
The vital pre-requisite is that the woman is aroused to the point of wanting
penetration before she invites it and that she remain in control such that
in these early stages she should decide on position, timing of insertion,
slowness of insertion, and any movement that occurs. If penetration is
attempted somewhat clinically “because it’s the next stage now we’ve got
to insert #6” the actual penetration may well be painless but later there
would likely be discomfort from rubbing the non-aroused vagina.
Problems
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The woman cannot insert even
the smallest insert. We would suggest that, in the examining
room, she, with your guidance, or you, with her full permission, at each
stage gently show how the insert can enter the introitus. This may take
more than one visit, that is maybe just at the introitus on one visit but
not through. We suggest she would be sitting up, in control, with her partner
present if she wishes, with your nurse present if the patient wishes, and
that you night use diagrams or models to explain anatomy. In about 50%
of women, this is the way the first insertion is done and, the other 50%
are more comfortable with making that first insertion on their own at home.
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The woman gets “stuck”, for
example at insert #2 or #3. Again, going back to the examining room one
more time, and actually guiding the woman with her own insert, is necessary.
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The woman develops cystitis.
This is rarely reported from the first few insertions, very similiar to
the mechanism of “honeymoon” cystitis and is treated similiarly.
In our experience, it is always short lived and a few prophylactic nitrofurantoin
or one course of anti biotics will suffice.
For the woman with lowered desire
who reaches the larger inserts but sill does not wish intercourse, we would
congratulate her that potentially she is now ready for sex inclusive of
intercourse but it is, and will always be absolutely her right to say whether
or not she wishes it to happen and that the current situation is that she
wishes for it not to happen and that this will be respected. Again, help
to guide the partner to give as low-key sexual touches, caresses, stimulation,
that is desired will be given. The woman may stay at this stage for some
months and, if there are relationship issues, perhaps indefinitely she
will be at this stage with this particular partner. The choice, of course,
is either to address the relationship or to accept that this is it’s potential
and that intercourse is reserved for the future with another person.
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please email the pharmacist.
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